70后男人爱穿衬衣西裤（蓝白条衬衣仿佛人手一件），再把衬衣放进西裤里面，系好腰带，一双不尖不圆的皮鞋，而且，往往不论高矮胖瘦，似乎个个如此。

 

70后男人被称为“强人”，拥有个人的车房和存款，但他们总是很焦虑，有忙不完的事、喝不完的酒、见不完的人，和总也实现不了的梦想。

 

如果一个80后女人和70后男人在谈恋爱，往往会便捷地拥有车子房子，但是，这个女人往往痛苦而没有安全感。

 

70后男人，不贴心。

 

他们大多数是太极高手，圆滑得让你找不出弱点。这让率直的80后摸不清底里。“喜欢，就对他好；不喜欢，就走开。”—— 80后的态度很简单。而往往当这些挺“楞”的女孩子掏心扒肝地对他好了以后，他就像个八卦掌的高手，避其锋芒、绕开主题，永远不得罪你，也让你摸不清方向。

 

于是，你难受，你觉得被带进了一个迷宫，你走不出来，你问他方向，他没有确定答案；你觉得被耍弄，但又没有绳子捆着你，你觉得自尊受辱，但找不到发火的接口。你好不容易攒起情绪哭上一次，他会觉得大可不必，而他的反映也让你没了情绪，你就像用尽全身力气却打进了一堆棉花，完全找不到发力的感觉。

 

70后男人有时会询问你有没有吃饱，也会给你夹菜，但这并不妨碍你俩间的难以沟通。

 

他不想沟通，他沉默寡言，他只做有价值的事情。

 

情绪没有价值，不解决任何问题，所以，理智的70后男人们不想浪费时间交换情绪。

 

经历人世种种，70后男人很少会去真爱，去真正付出，不计受伤与否，他们的心，早已设好了重重机关，层层关卡，他们把自己保护得牢牢的，不允许自己再受伤，因为那几乎等于是弱智的表现。他们往往是情场的高手，却同时是感情的懦夫。傻乎乎的80后女子，仅凭一腔真情，不带防护不穿盔甲，就闯进了这层层机关之中，不伤得体无完肤，怕是难以真正进入他们的心里。

 

同样经历过伤痛，80后往往还能相信世间还存在美好，而70后很少复原。

 

70后有更多的欲望，他们不说，但总被看穿—— 虽然他们认为自己演技不错。
所以他们有时惊叹80后的聪明，但其实没什么可大惊小怪—— 80后是宅腐但并不闭塞，何况人性中最根本的东西能有多少？80后只是不愿戳穿。

 

不可否认70后的勤奋；更不否认70后还残存着英雄的梦想—— 他们希望实现自己的价值，他们渴望自身超越；80后却更后现代，泯灭英雄，敢于嘲笑外部的一切权威，但阻力往往来自于自我内心。

 

70后还有怒吼、还有“愤青”；但这些在80后几乎绝迹。

 

80后很少有愤怒，取而代之地盛产奇幻、玄妙。

 

70后会指责80后的散淡、无计划；80后会漠视70后的欲望和复杂。

 

70后往往僵持很久而不婚；

 

80后往往还没什么就敢结婚；

 

最后送给70后的话—— 吃饭虽然重要，但也请用心体会一下这个世界；

 

最后送给80后的话—— 做梦虽然很美，但人还要靠自己吃饭。

乔布斯的一段话，你们的时间有限，所以，不要把时间浪费在别人的生活里，不要被条条框框所束缚，否则你就生活在他人思考的结果里。不要让他人的观点所发出的噪音淹没你内心的声音，最为重要的是，要有遵循你的内心和直觉的勇气，它们可能已经知道你其实想成为一个什么样的人，其他事物都是次要的。

 1、有些事，我们明知道是错的，也要去坚持，因为不甘心；有些人，我们明知道是爱的，也要去放弃，因为没结局；有时候，我们明知道没路了，却还在前行，因为习惯了。

2、以为蒙上了眼睛，就可以看不见这个世界；以为捂住了耳朵，就可以听不到所有的烦恼；以为脚步停了下来，心就可以不再远行；以为我需要的爱情，只是一个拥抱。

3、那些已经犯过的错误，有一些是因为来不及，有一些是因为刻意躲避，更多的时候是茫然地站到了一边。我们就这样错了一次又一次，却从不晓得从中汲取教训，做一些反省。

4、你不知道我在想你，是因为你不爱我，我明明知道你不想我，却还爱你，是因为我太傻。也许有时候，逃避不是因为害怕去面对什么，而是在等待什么。

5、天空没有翅膀的痕迹，但鸟儿已经飞过；心里没有被刀子割过，但疼痛却那么清晰。这些胸口里最柔软的地方，被爱人伤害过的伤口，远比那些肢体所受的伤害来得犀利，而且只有时间，才能够治愈。

6、很多人，因为寂寞而错爱了一人，但更多的人，因为错爱一人，而寂寞一生。我们可以彼此相爱，却注定了无法相守。不是我不够爱你，只是我不敢肯定，这爱，是不是最正确的。

7、如果背叛是一种勇气，那么接受背叛则需要一种更大的勇气。前者只需要有足够的勇敢就可以，又或许只是一时冲动，而后者考验的却是宽容的程度，绝非冲动那么简单，需要的唯有时间。

8、生命无法用来证明爱情，就像我们无法证明自己可以不再相信爱情。在这个城市里，诚如劳力士是物质的奢侈品，爱情则是精神上的奢侈品。可是生命脆弱无比，根本没办法承受那么多的奢侈。

9、人最大的困难是认识自己，最容易的也是认识自己。很多时候，我们认不清自己，只因为我们把自己放在了一个错误的位置，给了自己一个错觉。所以，不怕前路坎坷，只怕从一开始就走错了方向。

10、生活在一个城市里，或者爱一个人，又或者做某件事，时间久了，就会觉得厌倦，就会有一种想要逃离的冲动。也许不是厌倦了这个城市、爱的人、坚持的事，只是给不了自己坚持下去的勇气。

11、多少次又多少次，回忆把生活划成一个圈，而我们在原地转了无数次，无法解脱。总是希望回到最初相识的地点，如果能够再一次选择的话，以为可以爱得更单纯。

12、如果你明明知道这个故事的结局，你或者选择说出来，或者装作不知道，万不要欲言又止。有时候留给别人的伤害，选择沉默比选择坦白要痛多了。

IMMORTAL BELOVED
　　
　　
　　The First Letter
　　 July 6, in the morning
　　My angel, my all, my very self - Only a few words today and at that with pencil (with yours) - Not till tomorrow will my lodgings be definitely determined upon - what a useless waste of time - Why this deep sorrow when necessity speaks - can our love endure except through sacrifices, through not demanding everything from one another; can you change the fact that you are not wholly mine, I not wholly thine - Oh God, look out into the beauties of nature and comfort your heart with that which must be - Love demands everything and that very justly - thus it is to me with you, and to your with me. But you forget so easily that I must live for me and for you; if we were wholly united you would feel the pain of it as little as I - My journey was a fearful one; I did not reach here until 4 o'clock yesterday morning. Lacking horses the post-coach chose another route, but what an awful one; at the stage before the last I was warned not to travel at night; I was made fearful of a forest, but that only made me the more eager - and I was wrong. The coach must needs break down on the wretched road, a bottomless mud road. Without such postilions as I had with me I should have remained stuck in the road. Esterhazy, traveling the usual road here, had the same fate with eight horses that I had with four - Yet I got some pleasure out of it, as I always do when I successfully overcome difficulties - Now a quick change to things internal from things external. We shall surely see each other soon; moreover, today I cannot share with you the thoughts I have had during these last few days touching my own life - If our hearts were always close together, I would have none of these. My heart is full of so many things to say to you - ah - there are moments when I feel that speech amounts to nothing at all - Cheer up - remain my true, my only treasure, my all as I am yours. The gods must send us the rest, what for us must and shall be -
　　Your faithful LUDWIG.
　　
　　
　　The Second Letter
　　 Evening, Monday, July 6
　　You are suffering, my dearest creature - only now have I learned that letters must be posted very early in the morning on Mondays to Thursdays - the only days on which the mail-coach goes from here to K. - You are suffering - Ah, wherever I am, there you are also - I will arrange it with you and me that I can live with you. What a life!!! thus!!! without you - pursued by the goodness of mankind hither and thither - which I as little want to deserve as I deserve it - Humility of man towards man - it pains me - and when I consider myself in relation to the universe, what am I and what is He - whom we call the greatest - and yet - herein lies the divine in man - I weep when I reflect that you will probably not receive the first report from me until Saturday - Much as you love me - I love you more - But do not ever conceal yourself from me - good night - As I am taking the baths I must go to bed - Oh God - so near! so far! Is not our love truly a heavenly structure, and also as firm as the vault of heaven?
　　
　　
　　The Third Letter
　　 Good morning, on July 7
　　Though still in bed, my thoughts go out to you, my Immortal Beloved, now and then joyfully, then sadly, waiting to learn whether or not fate will hear us - I can live only wholly with you or not at all - Yes, I am resolved to wander so long away from you until I can fly to your arms and say that I am really at home with you, and can send my soul enwrapped in you into the land of spirits - Yes, unhappily it must be so - You will be the more contained since you know my fidelity to you. No one else can ever possess my heart - never - never - Oh God, why must one be parted from one whom one so loves. And yet my life in V is now a wretched life - Your love makes me at once the happiest and the unhappiest of men - At my age I need a steady, quiet life - can that be so in our connection? My angel, I have just been told that the mailcoach goes every day - therefore I must close at once so that you may receive the letter at once - Be calm, only by a calm consideration of our existence can we achieve our purpose to live together - Be calm - love me - today - yesterday - what tearful longings for you - you - you - my life - my all - farewell. Oh continue to love me - never misjudge the most faithful heart of your beloved.
　　ever thine
　　ever mine
　　ever ours

你给我的心动

“！乐快节午端你祝就那？吗易容我心开你让了为。吧到收次一第是你信短的式形个这计估，套老样一人别和意愿不就我”

我给我的心痛

“花开，凋谢，有爱逝去。情起，剑落，斩断犹疑。”

 

即使换了手机我也要把这两条短信保存下来，你发给我的，我发给你的，不管怎样，从心动到心痛，下一次我还是会一样的傻气。

 

PS,你已经忘记曾经发过这样一条短信,就在这篇日志做为怀念,谢谢你,祝你心想事成,事事如意.

    短信已经删除,没有存在的意义了.